Men succumb to peer pressure of 'extreme shaming and humiliation' despite feeling scared and degraded, report says Whether they involve jetting off to an eastern European capital, paintballing or simply a pub crawl, stag dos have become a rite of passage for many grooms. However, a study suggests that men do not enjoy the debauchery or the "extreme shaming, humiliation, and deviance" that are part and parcel of most modern stag dos.